Life isn't about going somewhere else in the world to find yourself, it's about finding yourself by journeying within.
You are not over there, or out there, anywhere; your essence
is within your being.

Life isn't about keeping score. That means it's not about how many friends you have, who calls you and how often, or how popular you may or may not be.

Life isn't about whether you're married, or how many dates you have, or having sex, or how often you spend the night alone.

Life isn't about how much money you have, or the car you drive, or where you live. Life isn't about the possessions
you have, it's not about material things.

LIfe isn't about being physically attractive or homely,
it's not about the clothes you wear, your skin color,
your complexion, or any other form of outward beauty.
Life isn't the physical existence.

Life isn't about how smart you are, how well you express yourself, or how many worldly accomplishments you've achieved. Life isn't about DOING, it's about BEING.
That's what life isn't.

What life is about, is who you love and who you hurt. It's about intentions, and if you purposefully make people happy or hurt them. It's about trust, and not betraying those who trust you. It's about friendship and caring, and whether you use friends as a means to an end or truly let them into your heart.

Life is about judgments and if you pass negative judgments on to others and your reasons for it, or keep them to yourself.
Life is about building others up or destroying them. It's about who you look down on and ignore, and who you look up to.

Life is about the fear and pain you intentionally cause,
about the hate and negativity you carry with you;
or the love and compassion you show to others,
and the positive energy you release into the world.

Life is about using your life to positively affect the quality
of the day for other people, or using it to wound and scar.
Only you will choose what life is and isn't for you, Life is about making the world better in small ways, individually, one life at a time. After all, who you are -
day by day - is what you get. Please remember that....

That's the way it should always be. Let's not loose focus of the fact that when you make the world better for someone else, you make your world better too, because we live in the same world.

for life is what you choose……


hui..hui…. pas gw baca tulisan diatas,,.banyak bayangan wajah bermunculun… orang2 yg selalu ada dalam kehidupan gw mulai dari gw lahir ke dunia ampe sekarng mendekati tahap ‘mulai dewasa”. Nyaokap,,bokap..Iyo, Raka, Adi..kakek, nenek..tante..om…sepupu-sepupu gw…mbah-mbah gw yg uda pada meninggal…n semua keluarga besar gw…… yg selalu jadi panutan dan cahaya dalam kehidupan gw...jadi penyemangat dalam setiap hal yg gw jalanin.....

temen sepermaenan waktu kecil,, Danu..Mada, shinta, dani, onggo, Kalis, Adi, ka arif, sari, tika, puput..yg pernah barengan nyebur kali demi nangkep ikan cere….

Sohib gw dari tk ampe sekarang… Gamu…(yg skrg di malay…), Zaqi…(yg skrg lg di Aussie), Bagus..(yg sekarang ud sibuk ma kegiatan FE nya….) huh..kapan lagi bisa ngumpul ma mereka..??!!! Ias, satu2nya sobat cewek terbaik yg gw punya….

Temen SD gw……., Ratih, Obi, Anjar, Mardian, Farlan, Liestia, Eko, Gilang, tamara, ajeng…yg entah uda pada dimane sekarang……

Temen SMP….yg ud ngajarin ttg kejamnya hidup, tawuran, arti pertemanan, busuknya khidupan n kejorokan2 cowok….Dafi, Rizki, Benny, Iwi, Yogi, Yoga, Marlon, Maurice, Dwi, Upie, Njum, Manda, Ivan, Raymun, atin, reza,,,, (oh..god..I don’t even remember their name…) ga lupa Habibie….seseorang yg uda ngebuat hidup gw lebih berarti dan kembali kearah yg lurus…..

Temen SMA…. (3 tahun perjalanan yg singkat dan penuh makna)….anak2 1-3,2-3…Barnard, tio, rio, rida, david, Ias..eva…intan, yantut, rara, wasti, cori, asih, andika, langgeng….mia, henggar, lukman, dlll….Anak Teater…astari, ncut, wisnu, harun, gilang, dlll yg selalu bikin hidup gw penuh canda tawa dengan kegilaannya dan bikin otak gw kembeli balance setelah belajar…. Anak KBPL yg ud banyak ngajarin arti tanggung jawab…anak2 Rohis..judith, iqo, tiwi….yg ud meningkatkan kualitas keimanan gw…..anak2 Seapoc…yg biking w narsis berfoto ria….dan semuanya yg uda pernah hadir di kehidupan SMA gw…..

Dan yg peling mengesankan selama 3 taon…III IPS 1….Peong, Aan, Nkong, satan, Gilang, Bang Der, Anus, Zico, Luis, (geng yg doyan jalan rame2…), bagus (penyemangat gw), cori, njum, mia, fadil, ppe, dora, arpina, ulis, rini, kare, ina, putu, dina, mita, ebi, indah, pepen, maya, darma, Daniel, icha,iruh, andini, hasan, vina, yehuda…(kelas yg kompak banget dalam segala hal…) surganya SMA deyh….

Temen-temen kosan gw yg uda nemenin perantauan gw....
Anak-anak Fiskal, Niaga, Negara.... yg uda berjuang bersama menlewati berbagai ujian kuliah....
Anak2 FISIP yg berwarna banget......seru dah...
Anak-anak SUMA...yg pernah jd tempat persinggahan dan tempatlari gw dulu....

Dan sekarang.... setelah gw memperdalem baca tulisan ini...bayangan anak humas yg paling gw inget.....pas krida,,, Ira yg gayanya g ada matenya.. ketawaannya Fuad yg cacat permanen, sinismenya farah,, Oon and muke polosnynya Icha,,nunu yg tenang namun mematikan, Akbar yg cool (gila..gw baik kan muji lo, bar..peace..;P) tawa kencengnya Kevin,, Iif yg berwajah kalem namun hebat dalam mencela.....narsisnya Mizan...saat2 qbo mimpin krida dengan pesona leadership yg dia punya dan segala kebaikan-kebaikannya (alah...),, mba mia yg rajin nulis notulen, dwi yg ketawanya seperti terengah-engah tanpa bernapas, umar yg misterius namun baik hati, Miun yg selalu calm.....mba vira yg perhatian banget ma ****, Ochied dengan segala filusufinya, dikha yg awalnya polos bgt tp sekarang ...., hehe,,, dayat yg banci foto imuyt juga,,, alfie yg lumayan diem dibanding yg lain,, mba Wulan yg dulu galak tapi sekarang baik banget (seneng d ma mba wulan yg sekarang), awan yg berhasil menipu gw mentah-mentah,,sapta yg workaholic.. Nelli, susi yg pd jarang dateng, andra yg selalu ngingetin ada krida walaupun gw males bgt dateng, Farmut..muncul di akhir dgn berbagai kejutan dan doyan banget nyubit ma nyiumin pipi gw....*hiiii...geli..*

Gila...gila...gila.... baru disini gw nemuin tempat dimana orang2nya beragam banget...!! ada temen, sahabat, kakak, ibu, mbah.. pokoke Nano-nano..!! kocak..!! dari yg kalem ampe yg cacat...!! tapi semuanya bisa nyatu dan bisa nyambung, nerima segala kelebihan dan kekurangan satu sama lain completely....saling peduli dan menyemangati... saling mengingatkan dan mengkritik demi perubahan yg lebih baik.... team organisasional tersolid yg pernah gw punya....dan tempat dimana kita bisa melupakan sejenak segala permasalahan di kampus, KETAWA bareng, Refreshing otak dan mental.ga ada matinya deyh semua,,,,,(ironis ya,,padahal gw dulu ngerasa kayak masuk pesantren mana..gitu..) (*makanya nit...Don’t judge the book by its cover..nyatanya gokil juga kan..*)

Uuh...dan sekarang...ntah kenapa tiap gw buka foto2 humas gw selalu senyum-senyum sendiri, inget semua moment2 keceriaan yg pernah terjadi, kebodohan2 yg pernah gw buat,, kejadian2 lucu lainnya, tangisan bareng2,, cape bareng2,,pusing rame2...have fun bareng....dan semuanya deh.... ntah kapan bisa ngumpul2 lagi.....tapi, biarlah hidup berjalan seperti semestinya ... semoga kita semua berhasil melewati seluruh tantangan hidup...meraih sukses....menikah...punya anak...punya cucu...semoga ikatan hati yg telah terjalin tetap terjaga hingga tiba saatnya berpulang.... tapi satu hal yg pasti...kita semua adalah sahabat dan keluarga... (uhh...gila... gw lg mellow gini.... hehe)

”We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures that we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.
-Jawaharlal Nehru-